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The Old Tift Charm

Three men beside a park bench, grabbing one another, sticking out their tongues, and making exaggerated faces.
For more than three decades, I’ve told tales about “the old Tift charm.” Its origins remain uncertain, but I know the people I associate with it. These family stories explore their dedication, humor, and encouragement, and what I hope to pass along when I teach yoga.

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Tended With Care

Matthew sitting cross-legged on a folded blanket on The Marsh deck, seen from behind, with autumn trees and blue sky beyond the railing.
For most of my life, I said I didn't like doing dishes. Recently, I've noticed I don't mind them. That small change reminded me of care, the last of Patañjali's three conditions for steady practice, and the value of giving familiar experiences another look.

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A Few Minutes, Week After Week

A bald man sitting cross-legged in meditation atop a large fallen tree trunk surrounded by autumn woods.
I’ve tried meditation groups in different places and formats. Attendance ebbs and flows. Lately, I’ve been learning to value a smaller measure of practice: a few minutes together, and a reason to return next week.

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What to Do with a Number

Matthew and Marnie smiling in a selfie on the shore of a lake, with a cloudy sky behind them and trees along the far bank
One number on Marnie's six-month test moved by 0.1. After two weeks of diet, shots, and waiting, we sat down for the results. Patañjali's short list of how we know anything helped me sort what I knew from what I was feeling.

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Attachments, Good and Bad

A person in a hoodie sits at a small round table by a curved bank of windows, mug in hand, looking out over a golden marsh toward a tree line under a clear sky.
I subbed an early class at The Marsh last week, and afterward, couldn't resist a gluten-free banana chocolate chip muffin. A lot of yoga teachers would tell me not to get attached. This post is about the difference between paying attention to something you enjoy and gripping it, and why that difference can be harder to notice than it sounds.

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The Highest Practice, Not the Only One

A quote painted on a wall reading "The highest spiritual practice is self-observation without judgment" above a glass display case holding a framed photo of Swami Kripalu at a writing desk, a folded orange robe, and a pair of wooden sandals, with a text panel to the left.
I stood in front of a glass case holding Swami Kripalu's folded orange robe and worn sandals, under a quote about self-observation without judgment. The quote didn't square easily with what was written next to it about a man who practiced ten hours a day for almost thirty years.

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What Am I Adding to This?

Thirteen people stand together on a wooden deck outside a small A-frame building, with trees behind them.
On Saturday, twelve people joined me at Lake Fellowship for gentle yoga, meditation, conversation, food, and time outside. The day had structure, but no one needed to perform it. We practiced steadiness and ease, and discovered how much room a pause can make.

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Two Kinds of Wanting

A bald man named Matthew in a black T-shirt and shorts kneels barefoot on a low wooden meditation bench, seen from behind, facing tall wood-framed windows that look out over a marsh and treeline under a blue sky, with sunlight falling across the white wall above.
Someone in class asked whether there is a good kind of wanting. The answer is yes. For years I assumed it was no, that "let it go" covered everything, and I pictured an advanced yogi who wanted nothing at all. I could never work out how that person got out of bed. Patañjali is more useful than that. He sorts mental activity into two piles.

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Just This One More Thing and I'll Be Set

A wooden harmonium sitting open on beige carpet in the corner of a room, its top panel raised above the black and white keyboard, with a row of chrome and red stop knobs and a carrying handle along the front.
In high school I told my mom that if I just had a CD player, I would not need anything else. I meant it. Thirty-some years later the sentence is about a harmonium, or one more tweak to my website, and the reasons seem better now. That's the part worth paying attention to.

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Not Taking What Is Not Given

A hand-drawn stick figure sitting cross-legged with eyes closed, a small smile, and hands resting open on the knees, in white on a light blue square, above the hand-lettered words Pretty Good Meditation with Episode 100 in bold rust-orange capitals below.
Episode 100 of Pretty Good Meditation has no intro music, no episode number, and no mention of my website. It's three minutes and forty-seven seconds. I'm starting to prefer minimal episodes. They align better with the yogic idea of non-stealing.

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